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Intimacy Intervention: ‘He Wants To Go to Bed and I Want To Go Again’

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Passionate Living Coach Abiola Abrams gives love, dating and self-esteem advice on the CW’s Bill Cunningham Show and all over the web through her hit web seriesAbiolaTV. Now she wants to help you keep things spicy and fresh between the sheets. Are you in need of an intimacy intervention? Just ask Abiola!

Dear Abiola,

My fiancé and I have a 19-year age gap between us, and he’s losing his sex drive as mine is picking up fast..

We’ve been together for four years and we have no kids together, alhough he thinks of my 17-month-old as his own. We get along great. We tell each other we love each other every day. At 29, I’m the younger one. He’s 48. I love him and we’re planning a wedding. The problem is, I express my love to him a lot in more than one way, but a lot of times, he’s just not interested the way that I need him to be.

sbaileyjr

Bailey is a partner with African American salon brand All Dolled Up Salons. www.baileyiam.com